Let's start with the part everyone's afraid of.
You missed a Required Minimum Distribution (RMD).
You Googled it.
You saw "25% penalty" (or the old 50% penalty), and your stomach dropped. Full breakdown: RMD Mistakes & Fixes (full penalty correction process).
Then you probably thought:
"Well… that's it. The IRS is about to repossess my soul."
Here's the part most people don't know:
The IRS built an off-ramp for this exact situation.
And almost nobody talks about it.
The Penalty Everyone Knows About (and Panics Over)
If you fail to take an RMD—or don't take enough—the IRS can assess an excess accumulation penalty:
- 25% of the amount you should have taken
- Reduced to 10% if corrected timely
- Historically 50%, which still lives rent-free in people's heads
What doesn't get nearly enough attention is the relief process that exists by design.
Enter: "Reasonable Error" (Yes, That's the Actual Term)
The IRS recognizes that RMD mistakes are often:
- Administrative
- Confusing
- Caused by bad or incomplete information
- Or simply missed during a year with way too much going on
This is not a loophole.
It's not aggressive.
It's literally in the rules.
How the Fix Actually Works (No, You Don't Call the IRS First)
Here's the practical process:
1. Take the Missed RMD
As soon as you realize the mistake, take the distribution.
Not later.
Not "next year."
Just fix it.
2. File Form 5329
This is the key form most people have never heard of. This is the beg for forgiveness form.
Form 5329 is where you:
- Report the missed RMD
- Request a waiver of the penalty
- Show that you corrected the issue
- Enter the shortfall
- Enter zero as the penalty
- Write "RC" (reasonable cause) next to the penalty line
3. Attach a Letter of Explanation
This is where people panic—but it's far simpler than they expect.
The letter should explain:
- What happened
- Why it was reasonable
- What you did to fix it
- What you'll do to prevent it going forward
No sob stories.
No over-sharing.
Just facts.
Example reasons that routinely qualify:
- First year subject to RMDs
- Conflicting or incorrect custodian information
- Death, illness, or major life disruption
- Misunderstanding inherited IRA rules (a huge one)
- Believing another account or person handled it
The Quiet Truth: Relief Is Commonly Granted
Here's the part nobody advertises:
The IRS routinely waives these penalties when the process is followed correctly.
Most people who get hit with the penalty:
- Never knew relief existed
- Never filed Form 5329
- Or were told "there's nothing you can do"
Why So Many People Don't Know This Exists
A few reasons:
- RMD rules are taught as punitive, not corrective
- Custodians often say "we can't give tax advice" (fair—but incomplete)
- Tax software doesn't always surface the waiver option clearly
- Fear stops people from asking questions once they see "25%"
What This Means for You (or Your Parents)
Missing an RMD is a problem.
It is not automatically a financial catastrophe.
The system allows for:
- Fixing the mistake
- Explaining it
- Moving on
Final Thought
The IRS is many things.
A mind reader is not one of them.
If you don't ask for relief, they won't guess that you meant well.
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Disclaimer
This content is for educational purposes only and is not tax or legal advice. Individual circumstances vary, and you should consult a qualified tax professional before taking action.